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How to soothe the soul of a dead person? Help in accompanying the Soul after death. How to calm the nervous system and find peace of mind

Hello dear readers! Question from Irina: Please tell me what ritual is needed to calm the soul of the deceased son. He died 3 years ago, and my mother and I still feel his presence in the house ... Please help!

In each case, you need to look at the individual reasons why the soul of the deceased cannot calm down, does not leave, what is holding it and what needs to be done. Formally, you can’t get by with any ritual first found on the Internet, thoughtlessly and without understanding the reason, it will be a “finger to the sky”. If you really want to help your soul, and not just get rid of incomprehensible and frightening phenomena, so that the soul of the deceased gets rid of you, you need to investigate individual reasons.

Reasons why the Soul of the deceased cannot calm down and does not leave

A person during his lifetime had very strong attachments to people, to a place, to material things. The bindings can be so strong that after death they energetically hold the Soul and it cannot leave. This very often happens to the souls of those who during their lifetime were either ardent materialists, lived without Faith, or in general, a person developed affection and a sense of possessiveness.
Living, loving loved ones, relatives cannot or do not want to let go of the deceased. Then the Soul cannot rise up, begin its rest and development in Subtle World with the Higher Forces, and it remains to live (arrive) among the living. This is bad for the Soul, it becomes a hostage to the egoism of the living. The "dead" can be hostages of the "living", because the living are stronger energetically, thanks to their physical body.
For certain sins and karmic debts the Soul of the deceased Higher power may not pick up. The soul finds itself in the power of the Dark Forces, which keep it near the ground or under the ground, tied to something or someone.
The soul may not leave itself if it has an obsessive idea, the belief that, for example, it must convey something important or tell someone from the living, or save someone from something bad. And then it needs to be reassured, explained that it can fly its own way, according to the program of its evolution. The soul can also return to the living because of its guilt, or if someone is very offended by it, and until it is forgiven, it is difficult for it to free itself completely.
Also, the Soul may simply not have the strength, positive energy to rise to the required height, if a person before death was completely exhausted physically and emotionally, de-energized energetically. And if a person did not have Faith in God, his soul simply cannot receive the help of the Forces of Light because of the destroyed or blocked connection with God. Then her withdrawal “to the top”, from the dead ends of disbelief, can occur through the Faith of people close to her who pray for her.
The burdened (negative) karma of a person of this and past lives can pull the Soul down. When there is simply not enough positivity and positive power to take off and enter the bright worlds. For a dark soul, for a negative and vicious person, this is the norm. In this case, the soul may remain to live among the living, like a ghost, for some time, or be taken to the dark worlds. As the saying goes, "to each according to his faith."
Other reasons, of which there may be hundreds.

In many religions and light esoteric systems there are special rituals for accompanying and protecting the Soul after the death of a person. Rituals to help the soul to accompany it to the Light worlds.

It is after death that the soul of a person is often quite vulnerable, many forces claim it, and there is a struggle for it. Especially if this person did not have a clear position during his lifetime: which path is he on? what is he striving for? to God or to His opposite?

The hardest thing after death is for the souls of atheists, materialists, people who have not decided on their faith, those who doubted God all their lives, did not particularly believe in their divine Soul, accumulated many claims and grievances against fate inside.

In any case, it is very important if the living, with their wish of Good, their Faith and spiritual actions, help the soul of the deceased to rise as high as possible, to the Light Forces. This happens through certain spiritual and esoteric rituals, prayers, working off and legal removal of the karmic causes that hold the soul.

What can help the Soul of the deceased and contribute to its release and calm

Forgiveness by the living of a deceased person, liberation from claims and insults in relation to the departing soul.
Prayer to God and liberation from attachment to the soul, in order to stop forcibly holding it near you. Wish good soul further development and movement towards God, and letting go - to trust the Light Forces that They know better than you what this Soul needs.
Prayers and corresponding church rituals aimed at helping the Soul: so that it can let go of the completed incarnation, repent, purify and rise to the bright worlds of God.
The prayer of relatives to God and the Light Forces, in their own words (most importantly from the heart), so that God takes the soul under His protection, to take care, to teach everything good, to protect from evil. So that all the good deeds of the departing soul, committed during life, go to her credit, into the cup of "Good". Prayer is best written in writing.

Sincerely, Vasily Vasilenko

heartache- this is emotional suffering, unpleasant and painful in its sensations for a person. Mental pain is also referred to as the pain of the soul body and reckoned with the loss of survival potential. Often it is much more dangerous than bodily diseases, since it causes disturbances in the work of all internal organs and causes disruption throughout the body.

How to deal with mental pain?

Emotional suffering develops when experiencing a life event or greatly worrying about loved one. Mental pain is often inherent in a person when his personal ideas do not coincide with what is happening in reality. This is because significant experiences leading to are due to patterns formed in the human brain, and reality is not what the individual expects it to be. All these disappointments lead to emotional suffering.

Mental pain by a person can be experienced both explicitly and covertly, when a person suffers, but does not admit it to himself.

How to deal with mental pain? A person copes with mental pain in several ways. In one case, mental pain moves from a conscious sensation to the subconscious and the individual mistakenly believes that he is no longer suffering. In fact, what happens is that a person simply avoids pain, and transfers it to the subconscious.

If an individual is inclined to demonstrate his actions and feelings, then this means that he gives vent to his mental pain. A person in such cases begins to consult with friends, acquaintances, seeks salvation in eliminating the root of the problem.

For example, if relationships with parents cause mental pain, then a person is looking for everything. possible ways in finding a common language with them.

If a person has chosen a method of avoidance, then this method is expressed in not recognizing the problem, often the individual says that everything is fine with him and does not even admit to himself in personal experiences. In this case, mental pain persists, passing into an implicit, subconscious form. This state is very difficult to cope with, it is painful for a person, much more emotional than an open confession, as well as saying the problem out loud.

How to get rid of mental pain

It is very difficult to get rid of latent pain, it is characterized by a protracted (for years!) course. At the same time, a person's character, relationships with others change. A person with mental pain begins to attract negative people to himself, gradually changing the level of acquaintances, or completely abandons them, forever excluding communication with people.

Often, emotional suffering does not allow an individual to create, work, it torments him, and a person often does not understand what is happening to him. Separate situations are able to remind a person of those moments that caused pain in his soul many years ago. This is due to the fact that emotions were driven into the subconscious many years ago, so a person cries and worries, not fully understanding what is happening to him, for example, after watching a emotional scene from a movie. In cases where you cannot cope with mental pain on your own, you need the help of a specialist or a loved one who is ready to listen to you.

Heartache after a breakup

Psychological reactions to the end of a relationship with a loved one have much in common with the reaction to physical loss, namely, the death of a loved one. The emotional pain after parting with a loved one can drag on for many months and years. During this period, a person is acutely worried. Experiences include stages of resentment, denial and pain.

Initially, there is a stage of denial, which manifests itself in the subconscious refusal of a person to objectively relate to the breakup and be aware of the end of the relationship.

The pain after a breakup is aggravated by the realization that a loved one is no more, and will never be there again. The moment a person realizes and accepts reality, he will stop suffering. This understanding does not come overnight. The duration of this period depends on the continuation of contacts with the former lover. To make it easier and faster to go through this stage of mental suffering, psychologists advise to abandon all contacts, as well as get rid of all objects that remind of past relationships.

The period of denial is replaced by a period of resentment, which is characterized by accusations of the former lover of all sins and the desire of the offended to take revenge, especially if betrayal was the reason for the break.

Psychologically, this is understandable: blaming another person is much easier than admitting part of your guilt in a similar situation yourself. This stage is marked by the emergence of an emotional block: there is a loop on negative experiences, which significantly delays the period of psychological recovery. At the next stage of the life crisis, worries about lost time in relationships that were in vain develop. Such experiences are accompanied by a fear of loneliness, as well as the uncertainty of the future, the fear that it will not be possible to build new relationships.

Most psychologists are inclined to believe that tears, suffering and reflection in loneliness are an obligatory, as well as a necessary part in overcoming this life crisis. There is nothing wrong with wanting to cry. Allow yourself to suffer and cry - this will bring relief and lead to recovery.

If, nevertheless, a decision was made to break up, then the lost relationship should not be restored, and for this reason, indulge in sad memories, call, and also meet. This will only slow down and make it more difficult to overcome emotional suffering.

Women often need more time than men to forget about former partner because for women, love for a man is the most important part of life. For a man, the priority in life is often work, as well as a career. In addition, it is usually easier for men to find a new partner.

Psychologists advise, left alone, to do. If, nevertheless, for two years, mental pain after parting worries, then it is necessary to consult a psychologist or psychotherapist who will help in solving this problem.

Severe mental pain

Edwin Shneidman American psychologist gave the following unique definition of mental pain. It is not like physical or bodily pain. Mental pain is manifested in experiences that are often caused by the grieving person himself.

Mental pain, filled with suffering, is an expression of the loss of the meaning of life. It is marked by torment, longing, confusion. This state gives rise to loneliness, grief, guilt, humiliation, shame, before the inevitability - aging, death, physical illness.

Eliminating the cause of suffering helps to get rid of severe mental pain. If the cause of emotional suffering is the negative behavior of a person regarding you, then in this case it is necessary to eliminate these causes, and not extinguish your emotions regarding this person. For example, if you are having trouble with your boss that provoked heartache, then you should work on your relationship with him, and not on your emotions and how you feel about it. Should be found mutual language or quit.

If emotional suffering is caused by an irreparable situation (illness or death), then you should work on the perception of reality and your emotions.

Mental pain lasts from six months to a year with the loss of a loved one. Only after this period of time, psychologists advise building new relationships in order not to repeat the same mistakes.

How to relieve mental pain? It is necessary to admit to yourself that an unpleasant situation has already occurred. This can alleviate your condition.

Second, go through the period of pain and come to your senses. Then we build a new future, but without these circumstances or this person. For example, without a favorite job or a loved one. Mentally build everything in detail, how you will live on. Often the real world becomes in a person the way he sees it in his imagination.

Often, severe mental pain is hidden under other masks and is confused with anger, disappointment, resentment.

How to deal with severe emotional pain? Find people who are worse off than you. Show them care. This way you will switch from your problem.

Master the system of correct breathing: with a long inhalation and a short exhalation. Proper breathing can help your body's cells recover quickly, strengthen nervous system.

Say something nice to people every day, positive emotions will also be transferred to you.

Follow the daily routine, get enough sleep, this will help restore nerve cells.

Take your mind off your worries by dancing, jogging, walking, push-ups, physical exercises. Sign up for a massage.

Avoid the return of intense mental suffering. Scientists are inclined to believe that a person stays in a state of depression for a quarter of an hour, and the rest of the time he himself creates mental suffering for himself, prolonging and aggravating them. That's why great importance has the ability not to return mental pain again, which is facilitated by situations from the past that provoked experiences.

Hello Alexandra. You don't have to blame yourself for what happened. Take it as an experience. Often, young girl friends train with each other in the skill of kissing (for future relationships with the opposite sex).

Hello Alexandra, if a girl kissed you, this does not mean that automatically, you have turned into the same as her. What happened to you is called temptation. In this or another sphere, it is inherent in people, as a sad result of the fall of man. You need to go to the temple, do not hesitate to go to confession. Look around in the temple, find a priest who would suit you, at least identify by appearance. Say do not be afraid of what your conscience reproaches you with. The result will be, believe me. After that, live on, and do not look back, you should not have anything to do with it. Date a guy, start a family, kids). Happiness to you.

I am 22 years old. I study in Yekaterinburg, I am a non-resident myself. Closer to the beginning of the new academic year, it turned out that I was not given a place in the hostel. There is no place to live, you have to study. I was rescued by a friend who offered to live in his one-room apartment. I agreed because I had no other choice. Everything went fine for the first couple of weeks, but then I realized that I liked my neighbor (although I already knew this), and later it turned into a severe form of falling in love. One-sided feelings are tearing me apart from the inside. I told a friend about my feelings, but nothing changed from this, except for the tension between us. I was trapped. I can't move out and try to stay away from him, because in that case I'll just end up on the street, and at the same time I can't overcome my feelings being around. What to do with it, I just have no idea. Can you help me please?

Hello Linaria. We recommend that you do not fight with your feelings inside yourself, if you resist them, it will only get worse in your soul. Try to switch to other guys, even if you don't feel like it. With a guy, don’t touch on the topic of feelings anymore and he will eventually decide that you have calmed down. Tension has arisen between you because the guy cannot reciprocate your feelings. Continue living in his apartment and focus on your studies (session coming soon).

Hello. I have such a situation. I had a relationship with a man for 12 years. She loved deeply, but he turned out to be a coward and does not want to admit it. When our relationship began to loosen, he began to demand back all the gifts, took everything down to underwear. Although he had no less gifts and equivalent ones. Insults began to pour in. Time has passed, and I have such an emptiness inside that no matter what I fill it with, I still return to the starting point. Travel, friends, hobbies, nothing helps. He stands before his eyes. And completely bewildered, how could he do this?

Hello Albina. We recommend that you switch to other men and stop worrying about unsuccessful past relationships. “He is in front of my eyes. And complete confusion, how could he do this? - He did what he usually does. Just for you, such qualities in character are not acceptable. You and your ex are different, so you should not feel sorry for him.

Hello, I would appreciate your help. We have been living together with my gr.husband for 3 years. At the time of our meeting, he was married, but divorced to be with me. He is best person in the world in relation to me, I did not think that it was possible to love like that. And I also love him endlessly, but then one day he declares that he was disappointed in me, almost fell out of love, does not want to live with me, but immediately said that he does not drive, he lives with me out of pity. My husband is very wealthy, he fully supports me, and to my question, what are we going to do now, he said so and we will live on and the horror began. Yes, we live together, he also provides for me, we sleep in the same bed, but there is no intimate relationship, we don’t talk, only on domestic issues, although it happens that he himself speaks and laughs and seems to thaw. On my question, what is the reason for the disappointment, he did not answer. I'm just going quietly crazy. I love him, he is the dearest in life. What to do? How to build relationships? He has a child and I have from a previous marriage. He treated my child well, sincerely, and then he said that he did not want me to bring my daughter, because he only sees his on weekends. The child is with the grandmother and thank God that she does not see this nightmare. The situation has been dragging on for 2 months, we live like this. Help! How to save a family? For all my attempts to build relationships like a wall. He said he didn't want anything. This has never happened. He says that he does not want anything, that it is better to die, but many people will suffer. God, I'm just going crazy. Tell me, can a man live out of pity? In my opinion, this is simply absurd. And it lasts for a month. And I don't know how long it will last. I will endure everything, if only he thawed.

- Hello Natalia, the fact that he met you and got divorced does not allow him to live in peace. You must understand that at the beginning of your relationship there was passion, and mutual from both sides. Time passed, the man realized what he had done, because the family had collapsed. Perhaps he loved or still loves his family very much, so he feels a sense of regret. Do you have a schedule with him, or do you just live in a place? Let him go, this is the only chance to make amends for your and his family.

Hello Olesya, the fact that your husband has such a health problem is, of course, an unpleasant situation. Maybe you can try, take a baby from a baby house, or from an orphanage. How many kids are left without parental love. Find with your husband the strength to take and give at least one of them your love, support and protection. It is clear that this is a very responsible step, but if you don’t try, you will reproach yourself all your life that there was at least a small chance to experience maternal happiness, but you didn’t use it. The husband should try to explain that life is not eternal, he will grow old over time, his strength will leave him, and in his old age there will be no one to worry about him, to give a glass of water.
Olesya, if you are a believer, at least a little, come to the temple, sincerely pray from a pure heart to God to help you in your difficult task, and He will really help you and heartache will go back to where it came from.
I sincerely wish you to get rid of your spiritual burden, and feel that unique lightness of life to which we are called by God.

I have a second marriage. When she got married, she was happy and was waiting for a long-awaited pregnancy, but the pregnancy never came ... They lived together for 7 years. My husband has infertility, the chance for IVF is 20%. She categorically does not want a donor child. I'm exhausted, I really want a baby. (he also wants to, but he probably understands that it won’t work out and somehow resigned himself, but I can’t) I’m 37, in a couple of months 38 is already the limit, but I never gave birth. She began to treat her husband worse, began to eat herself, that she made the wrong choice and him, in turn, that she hid her infertility from me and constantly reassured me that he would soon undergo treatment and we would become pregnant.
I can't live with it... I'm tired. I'm afraid to break wood. I can not forgive him and be left without the desired baby. How to be!? Mental pain drowns consciousness, interferes with life.

Hello Olesya. The situation is difficult. Your desire to have a child is understandable. While there is still time, it is necessary to think how else to solve this problem. It makes sense to go to a family psychologist with your husband so that the specialist helps you and your husband sort out the problem (so that your husband finds out how important it is for you to have a child, that you are unhappy in a relationship due to the lack of the opportunity to realize yourself in motherhood) and contribute to making the right decision.

I am 35, in my childhood (5 years old) the older boys forced me to do something that I don’t say out loud all day. The parents found out, but chose not to make a fuss. Further substance abuse, psychotropics, criminal records, terms. In the direction to the hospital, the diagnosis was F 18-26. For a long time I was sure that I was communicating with aliens in my head.
When passing the commission in the military registration and enlistment office they gave a certificate: Limited capacity art. 117 B. I consider myself a spiritual cripple. Mental pain sometimes leads to bouts of deaf crying, resentment. And there is no one to talk to and talk about. I can't do this anymore. Help!

Look, it's really sad what happened to you. It's too bad there's no one to help you. Of course, you can't tell everyone about this. You turn to God, tell Him everything, all your pain, see how it becomes easier for you. Just shut yourself up in your room and talk. Even better, go to a church in your city, preferably an evangelical one, and talk to a minister or pastor. They will pray with you. Many have been healed and delivered this way. I wish you success!
- God does not help anyone, why are you fooling a person, do you have a conscience?
  - Hello Sergey, did you establish this from your own experience, or did someone tell you?

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Hello! I am 29 years old. Went through a breakup with a boyfriend. They met for 6 years, it was going to the wedding, but the guy started endogenous depression. After six months of agony and fruitless attempts to help, I ended the relationship. Six months later, there were new short-term and unsuccessful relationships, where they already left me. Now another six months have passed and I have more or less accepted and experienced the past, but I am tormented by a strong pain of loneliness. In general, she torments me even after the first parting. At first, I had a fixed idea, to find compensatory relationships, which led to a disastrous result. Now I am delving into self-contemplation and self-development with varying degrees of success. I can work productively, but I understand that I can’t do anything about the pain of loneliness. I can get distracted, but sometimes I fall into despair. It is rare to be happy. There was a lack of self-confidence and distrust of people + fear that I would never be able to meet my man. The calm state is replaced by panic and it is impossible to control this process. Relationships have always been in the first place for me and I just can’t learn to appreciate what I have and enjoy an independent life. I would be grateful for any hints. Thanks!

- Thank you. In a difficult moment, such words are very helpful. The links are very handy, I saved them, I will re-read them in moments of crisis)

Hello Eugene. Read the book Five Masks, Five Injuries by Liz Burbo.

The factor in the appearance of mental pain and the ease of overcoming it does not depend on gender, and in this case, to treat the situation stereotypically is wrong. Every person is unique and everyone has their own pain threshold. Not a single psychologist will give an exact recipe if he approaches the situations that occur in people in a stereotyped way. Yes, in many ways they are similar, but the manifestations and perception of the situation are individual for everyone. I will speak for myself, I did not manage to get rid of the mental pain and I have to somehow live with it. At times there comes a period of return of memories, which gives pain to physical level, quite perceptible. It is easy to understand the situation, to find the reason too, it is impossible to forgive a person if you are not to blame for anything, and he blames you for everything, although it is completely his fault. Of course, you can do something else, some other distracting things, without enthusiasm, but this does not save. Thoughts and memories always come back.

Probably, it was not your man, and this is your comfort. I have a similar situation, we broke up after 2 years of a stormy romance, mostly at a distance, he blames me for what didn’t happen, and I’m offended that he thinks so of me and I can’t prove anything. And is it necessary? For the second month after separation, I feel such longing and suffering, it seems that it will never end. But I console myself with the fact that it was still not my man. Those who love for real, they don't do that. You need more communication, I think so, it saves me, even all sorts of comments, communication in social networks. And you need to learn to control your thoughts, not to go deep into them and drive them away, try it. And it’s even better to get to know each other if a decent amount of time has passed since the breakup. Don't get hung up. Forgive and let go. Read other recommendations, for example, I found in Google 6 steps after breaking up. I wish you success! I hope I helped a little 🙂
- Thanks Larisa. Only in my case it is unrealistic to forget. You can hate, but this pain will not go away, but on the contrary. I am forced to see my daughter at the former, they did not give her to me, and this pain is even stronger. I tried new relationships. It all comes down to the fact that there is no longer trust, and the relationship is falling apart at my request. I just live .. Come what may.

Hello Galina. The point is to seek explanations from a man if he has made a final decision for himself. Now you need to think about how to cope with this situation and recover mentally as quickly as possible. It is required for yourself to realize and accept his decision, mentally thank the Universe for those wonderful days that you were together and let him go. After all, all this could not be. Remember what Mark Twain wrote: “There are only two things we will regret on our deathbed – that we loved little and traveled little.” When you get rid of these relationships, your heart will be free and wish for new relationships, you will definitely attract them with your desire.
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I am 54 years old. All my life I dream of love. But even in my youth, I could never talk to guys, let alone meet - as if it were a shame for me. And as if it would make people smile. She married at the age of 28 to a man from a dating service. But he turned out to be a drinker, a year later I left him, because it was unbearable. She gave birth and raised a son. And I still can’t meet, fall in love - the reason is the same. I have never experienced a man's love for me. If sometimes one of the men says something good to me, I am sure that he is pretending or mocking me. From loneliness for 10-15 years there has been depression, I didn’t realize it right away, I just didn’t have the mood, I didn’t want anything, I didn’t want to see anyone, etc. Now depression makes itself felt with prolonged bouts of melancholy, anxiety. I can't feel joy. There is no feeling of pleasure. As if there is no strength. I drank rexetine four years ago and something else for sleep. I could not sleep for two days and did not even yawn. Then she fell, 2 operations on her knee, then her mother died. Life has become quite bleak. I went to psychologists, but depression does not go away. I don't know how to deal with it. What should I do, tell me?

Irina, I want to advise you the most wonderful diaries!!! Reread John of Kronstadt!!! (it was such a person who lived, he was numbered among the saints!) Believe me. I live with severe mental pain. Strongest!!! And I'm learning to enjoy it! Believe me. His diaries will make you brighter. Thanks for attention.

IN There have been moments in each of our lives when we have experienced great anxiety and emotional pain. Such a state can manifest itself both in the form of experiences, and in the form of depression and unwillingness to live. The reasons, as a rule, lie in our perception of life's difficulties, sometimes so unpredictable and painful that it is difficult for us to heal spiritual wounds on our own.

AND this is logical, because events such as the betrayal of a loved one or his death, complete bankruptcy, a dangerous illness not only lead to mental anxiety, but takes away the meaning of further existence. How to cope with apathy, calm the soul and return the former joy to your life?

P First of all, you need to accept the situation. No matter how ridiculous it may sound, as long as we perceive what happened as an injustice in life, we will not be able to help ourselves, but we will only feel sorry for ourselves and wonder: “Why am I doing this? Why did this happen to me?" All the events that take place in our lives do not happen just like that, everything has a meaning, and if we don’t see it now, we realize it later. You just need to trust life, the natural flow of divine power. If the closest and dearest person has passed away, you need to let him go. We all will someday go there, but it has long been known that if a deceased person is killed for too long and mourned, his soul will not find peace in that world, because we energetically simply do not let him go.

T Prayer also helps to calm the soul. After all, if it is uttered sincerely, from a pure heart, with repentance in the soul and inviolable faith, it will definitely help a person, give strength to survive difficult moments in life. When a person prays, he bows before the higher powers, shows respect and asks for forgiveness for his sins. He becomes kinder, love prevails in his soul during prayer and nothing but love. Communication with God makes a person calm, balanced, harmonious. And most importantly, the fear of illness, poverty, loneliness, and death disappears. Only love remains.

P Meditation has the same effect. Meditating, we feed on divine energy, calm our mind, enter a state of deep relaxation. Meditation can overcome anxiety, restlessness and apathy.

H in order to cure the soul, in addition to the above, you need to take care of your physical form, introduce into your diet proper nutrition, practice only healthy sleep, and also start communicating with cheerful people, dedicate free time favorite pastime. After all, our subtle (energy) body is closely connected with the physical, and the “treatment” must be carried out comprehensively.
The cause of all emotional experiences is in our head. No wonder they say: "You can not change the situation - change your attitude towards it."

Complete collection and description: a strong prayer for peace of mind for the spiritual life of a believer.

Despondency is a trait today modern society. Many people need support, which is not always easy to find in our rhythmic life. In order to find peace of mind and balance, prayers should be used to calm the soul and heart.

How to calm the soul and heart with prayer

In Orthodoxy, it is allowed to turn to various Saints with a prayer for reassurance. The most powerful prayer, which allows you to calm your soul and heart, is considered a prayer appeal to the Holy Matrona of Moscow. This Holy Elder is considered the main helper of the suffering, so she is asked to help in a variety of life situations. She also responds to a prayer for peace of mind and heart.

Before praying to this saint, it is recommended to visit the temple and put a candle there for your own health, and also leave a note so that your name is mentioned in the prayer service. Then you should buy six candles. One of them will need to be placed near the image of the Great Martyr Panteleimon, and all the rest near the icon of the Matrona of Moscow.

After that, without taking your eyes off the icon, you need to say the following words:

After that, you need to bow to the image, diligently cross yourself and go home. If you feel that peace has not come in your soul, then you can continue to pray to the Holy Matrona of the Moscow House. To do this, you need to bring some holy water from the church, you should also purchase candles and small icons of the aforementioned Saints in the temple.

Organize a Red Corner in a separate room. Install icons and candles there, as well as place a container filled with holy water. In the evening, you need to retire, make sure that no one bothers you. Be sure to turn off artificial lighting and turn off your mobile phone. For some time you need to sit in silence, you need to try to relax and calm down as much as possible. You need to convince yourself that after a prayerful appeal to the Matrona of Moscow, calm will surely come. After that, you should start praying.

The text of the appeal to the Holy Staritsa is as follows:

The prayer is repeated many times. After that, you need to cross yourself three times and drink holy water. After the prayer, you need to sit again for a while in silence, looking at the flame of the candle. At this moment, you need to think about the happy events that happened to you in a past life.

Orthodox prayers for peace of mind

Orthodox prayers for peace of mind have great strength. Therefore, it is important to resort to prayer in the most difficult times of life. They allow you to remove the darkness from the soul and give true peace, which will allow you to make reasonable decisions and correct the current situation. life situation. Prayer for peace of mind will help if you are at a crossroads and do not know what decision to make.

Any spiritual illness is cured with the help of Orthodox prayer. When a person prays, he is imbued with an external force that helps him resist any external negative influences. Prayer to God is a light that can drive away any spiritual darkness. God never refuses to help a believing person if he turns to him with a sincere prayer.

In order to find peace of mind, you need to repeat the following prayer as often as possible:

There are many other Orthodox prayers that will help a person find peace of mind and get rid of feelings of hopelessness. Among the short prayer addresses, the following prayers should be noted: “The Song of the Mother of God”, “Prayer to the Holy Cross”, “Jesus Prayer”, “Prayer to the Almighty from fear and anxiety”.

Prayers are also very capacious and effective: “Our Father”, “Prayer to the Guardian Angel”, “Psalm 90”, “May God rise again ...”, “Kontakion of the Most Holy Mother of God from anxiety and fear”, “Prayer of the Optina Elders at the beginning of the day” .

Strong prayer to calm down and not be nervous

Very often in life there are situations that make a person nervous. And sometimes, it can be very difficult to calm down on your own. In such cases, special prayers will help. It is very important to believe that prayer appeals will help to calm down. Only in this case, appeals to God will be effective.

A very strong positive attitude is provided by the Prayer of the Optina Elders at the beginning of the day. Daily prayer in the morning has a beneficial effect on the life structure of a person and strengthens the strength of the spirit. Prayer appeal allows you to resist stress. Without being nervous or irritated, a person can successfully cope with all daytime trials. Morning prayer will allow you to maintain harmonious and peaceful relationships with other people.

It is noteworthy that the prayer of the Optina Elders was written in an understandable public Russian language. This allows you to pray meaningfully, which greatly increases the effectiveness of the prayer appeal.

The text of the prayer is as follows:

Listen to a prayer for the soul:

Reading the Qur'an to soothe the soul

In Islam, it is believed that the best remedy to calm the soul and find peace of mind is to read the holy book of the Koran. Prayer texts from it grant healing for the soul and body. The Qur'an is prescribed to the faithful, as the highest blessing of the Almighty. By reading texts from the Koran, a Muslim strengthens his relationship with the Almighty. As a result, his soul becomes stronger and his heart softens. That is, the true believer finds true peace.

The truth of Islam is that as long as the believer reads the Qur'an, he follows the command of Allah. This emphasizes his humility and indicates that a Muslim completely trusts himself to the will of Allah. And this means that a person is not threatened with anxiety and worries.

Muslim soothing prayer

The Muslim soothing prayer is as follows:

In addition, in Islam it is believed that prayer of repentance will help to calm down. A person, having repented of his sins, receives forgiveness, and, consequently, finds peace of mind.

To do this, you can use the following Muslim prayer:

There is also a daily prayer to calm the soul, it sounds like this:

Dua from the nerves (with a disorder of the nervous system)

Muslims believe that a dua from the Koran can help with mental disorder and with a disorder of the nervous system.

If you are tormented by insomnia, which is the result of emotional experiences, then you need to say:

In translation, this means the following:

If you feel scared for any reason, then you can calm down with the help of another dua:

The translation of this text is:

It is important to read the dua, observing all the rules Muslim prayers. You need to pray only after ablution, in clean clothes and in a clean room. For Muslim prayers prerequisite their effectiveness is the sobriety of the mind of a person turning to Allah. It is forbidden to pronounce the dua in a state of drug or alcohol intoxication.

Prayer to the Matrona of Moscow to calm the nerves and soul.

To calm shattered nerves and help your wounded soul, read the prayer to the Matrona of Moscow in comfortable calmness.

When there are too many problems and stresses, the nervous system cannot withstand such a load.

Medicines help as long as they work.

My dears, without canceling medical treatment, help yourself with an Orthodox prayer addressed to the Matrona of Moscow.

First of all, visit the Church and submit a registered note about your own Health.

Put 3 candles each to the icon of the Great Martyr and Healer Panteleimon and the Blessed Old Lady Matrona of Moscow.

Matrona Blessed, perfect in soul, calm your nerves, repose sinfulness. Amen.

For home prayer, buy a few candles and the icons listed above.

Collect holy water in a spacious container.

Lock yourself in your room at the most opportune time.

You light candles. Place icons and a decanter with holy water nearby.

For about three minutes you just look at the burning flame, reassuring yourself that it is harder for others.

Imagine the Lord God and the intercession of the Matrona of Moscow.

Instill in your soul unshakable faith in Holy Orthodoxy.

Proceed to repeatedly whisper a special prayer that helps calm the nerves and find humility in the sinful soul.

Blessed Staritsa, Matrona of Moscow. Protect me from nervous enmity, protect me from severe need. May my soul not hurt from thoughts, and the Lord forgive me for all sins. Help me calm my neurosis, let there be no crying of sorrowful tears. Amen.

Cross yourself diligently and drink holy water.

You continue to watch how the flame is warming, remembering your past days without contrition.

After a while, you will certainly calm down, continuing with faith in your soul and long years pray to Matrona of Moscow.

Powerful prayer from depression and despair to Matrona of Moscow.

If you are overcome by depression, and your soul suffers from despair, turn to the Matrona of Moscow with prayerful help.

Visit the Orthodox Church and submit a registered note about your own Health.

Being at the sacred image of the Old Lady, say these prayer lines to yourself:

Let depression disappear, despondency will leave me. Amen.

Cross yourself diligently and leave the Temple.

For home prayer, buy 12 candles and the icons listed above. Collect holy water in a spacious container.

Arriving home, retire to a cozy room.

You light candles. Place icons and a cup of holy water nearby.

For a few minutes, just look at the burning flame, renouncing the attacking thoughts.

They, you know, like burdocks, stick to us - especially before going to bed.

Imagine calmness in movements and despondency receding somewhere into the distance.

You begin to repeatedly whisper an Orthodox prayer addressed to the Matrona of Moscow.

Blessed Staritsa, Matrona of Moscow. Forgive me mortal despair and do not send a reciprocal punishment. In a terrible depression, I toil tiredly, that hour before you I sincerely repent. May God not leave me, do not destroy me, help me, otherwise it will be terrible. Strengthen my faith, give more strength, so that the demon does not destroy my soul forever. May your will be done. Amen.

Put out the candles. Throw the cinders in the urn. Drink holy water, cross yourself diligently.

In order for depression to recede as soon as possible, gain strength and endure a weekly fast.

Pray for this without ceasing.

Having received communion and confession, again proceed to prayer at home, having acquired 12 candles ahead of time.

The Blessed Matrona will certainly hear you, and Grace will replace despair.

A strong prayer to the Matrona of Moscow against corruption and the evil eye.

Any strong corruption or evil eye of the ill-wisher will forever be cast away under the Divine power of the Matrona of Moscow.

We have already talked about damage many times.

My dears, believe that there are many more good people in the world.

But there are nasty ones too.

In such cases, Holy Orthodoxy comes to the rescue through the Saints and Saints.

Feeling the evil eye or damage on yourself, do not squander curses, but visit the Orthodox Church.

Submit a custom note about your own Health.

Put 3 candles to the icon of Jesus Christ, Nicholas the Wonderworker and the Blessed Old Lady Matrona of Moscow.

Being at the image of the Old Woman, say these prayer lines to yourself:

In baptism, in prayer and in fasting observance, deliver me, Matrona, from the evil creation. Amen.

Cross yourself diligently and leave the Temple.

In addition, you buy 12 more candles and the icons listed above.

Collect holy water in a deep container.

At the most appropriate time, retire to a locked room.

Light 3 candles. Place Orthodox icons and a decanter of holy water nearby.

Peacefully look at the burning flame, forgiving offenders and letting go of enemies forever.

Come to terms with the fact that someone is good, and not with the fact that someone will become bad.

Read the prayer “Our Father” several times.

Cross yourself and drink holy water.

Proceed to repeated whispering of special prayers to help get rid of the evil eye and corruption.

Blessed Staritsa, Matrona of Moscow. In impotence, I turn to you, let human malice not die in me. Who sent damage - let him not suffer, who jinxed by chance - will not sob. I forgive enemies, I do not judge people, but only deliver me from my grief. In prayer power and faith I will be saved, at the appointed hour I will ascend to Heaven. Amen.

Another powerful prayer against tainted deeds and the “heavy eye”.

Matrona of Moscow, Blessed Staritsa. Whether as a punishment, or as a test, I suffer from suffering. Intercede before me, deliver someone else from damage. Let the evil eye be washed away with water, and there will be no refusal from God. The lesson that the Lord gives, let it enter my soul by faith. Amen.

Cross yourself heartily again and drink holy water.

These are very strong prayers against the evil eye and corruption, which are designed to strengthen your faith, while at the same time getting rid of the negativity of evil people.

Orthodox help from a prayer for peace of mind

Many, even a wave modern people complain that they lack peace of mind in their lives. This happens because we devote little time to our spiritual development, and too much time to the pursuit of success. The word “success” comes from “to be in time”, that is, we have no time to stop, pray, we are in a hurry to be no worse than everyone else in the modern sense of these words. If this continues for a long time, then apathy, loss of strength, despondency sets in.

Prayer will help restore peace of mind. Try to find at least five minutes for daily morning and evening prayer, and notice how calmness gradually returns to you. You can also pray on the way to work or home from work. You can learn a few simple short prayers for finding peace of mind, and repeat them to yourself.

Orthodox prayer for peace of mind

There is a very strong Orthodox prayer for calming the soul - the prayer of the Optina Elders. It begins with wonderful words: "Lord, let me meet with peace of mind everything that the coming day will bring me." These words are so simple, but if you think about it, they have a very deep meaning. After all, how often we lack exactly patience, humility, the ability to “let go” of the situation, to pause. Further in the prayer there are petitions to God for hourly support, for wisdom in communicating with all family members. In this prayer for peace, we ask the Lord for strength to endure working days, love, the ability to forgive, faith and hope.

The Orthodox prayer of the Optina Elders is included in the collection of morning prayers that you can find in any Orthodox prayer book. The prayer of St. John Chrysostom “Grant, Lord, the grace of understanding to my unworthiness” can also be attributed to miraculous prayers for peace.

Powerful Prayer for the Peace of Mind of a Person in Confusion

There is another prayer for peace that does not apply to Orthodox prayers, however, her words do not at all contradict the Orthodox dogma. The alleged author of this prayer is the American priest Reinhold Niebuhr. In it, we first of all ask God for wisdom, because only a wise man can find peace of mind. The prayer of Reinhold Nibul is known throughout the world, and is included in the Catholic prayer books of American military chaplains.

Strong prayer for peace of mind - Orthodox text

God, give me the mind and peace of mind to accept what I cannot change. The courage to change what I can. And the wisdom to distinguish one from the other.

Listen to the video prayer for peace of mind

Orthodox text of the prayer of the Optina elders for peace at the beginning of the day

Lord, give me peace of mind to meet everything that the coming day brings me. Let me completely surrender to Your holy will. For every hour of this day, instruct and support me in everything. Whatever news I receive during the day, teach me to accept it with a calm soul and firm conviction that everything is Thy holy will. In all my words and deeds guide my thoughts and feelings. In all unforeseen cases, do not let me forget that everything is sent down by You. Teach me to act directly and reasonably with each member of my family, without embarrassing or upsetting anyone. Lord, give me the strength to endure the fatigue of the coming day and all the events during the day. Guide my will and teach me to pray, believe, hope, endure, forgive and love. Amen.

Read the text of the prayer of St. Joseph of Optina during the invasion of thoughts

Lord Jesus Christ, banish from me all unsimilar thoughts! Have mercy on me, Lord, for I am weak. Thou art my God, contain my mind, so that unclean thoughts do not overcome it, but in You, my Creator, (he) delights, how great is Your Name to those who love You.

Reasons why the Soul of the deceased cannot calm down and does not leave

A person during his lifetime had very strong attachments to people, to a place, to material things. The bindings can be so strong that after death they energetically hold the Soul and it cannot leave. This very often happens to the souls of those who during their lifetime were either ardent materialists, lived without Faith, or in general, a person developed affection and a sense of possessiveness.
Living, loving loved ones, relatives cannot or do not want to let go of the deceased. Then he cannot rise up, begin his rest and development with the Higher Forces, and it remains to live (arrive) among the living. This is bad for the Soul, it becomes a hostage to the egoism of the living. The “dead” can be hostages of the “living”, because the living are stronger energetically, thanks to their own.
For certain and the Soul of the deceased, the Higher Powers may not take up. The soul is in power, which keeps it near the ground or underground, tied to something or someone. In this case, the living, with the help, can help the enslaved or bound Soul to free itself from the clutches of the dark ones, if the reasons for its retention are understood and worked out.
The soul may not leave itself if it has an obsessive idea, the belief that, for example, it must convey something important or tell someone from the living, or save someone from something bad. And then it needs to be reassured, explained that it can fly its own way, according to the program of its evolution. The soul can also return to the living because of its guilt, or if someone is very offended by it, and until it is forgiven, it is difficult for it to free itself completely.
Also, the Soul may simply not have the strength, positive energy to rise to the required height, if a person before death was completely exhausted physically and emotionally, de-energized energetically. And if a person did not have, his soul simply cannot receive help due to a destroyed or blocked connection with God. Then her withdrawal “to the top”, from the dead ends of unbelief, can occur through the Faith of people close to her who pray for her.
The burdened (negative) person of this and past lives can pull the Soul down. When there is simply not enough positivity and positive power to take off and enter the bright worlds. For a dark soul, for a negative and vicious person, this is the norm. In this case, the soul may remain to live among the living, as, for some time, or be taken to the dark worlds. As the saying goes, "to each according to his faith."
Other reasons, of which there may be hundreds.

What can help the Soul of the deceased and contribute to its release and calm

Forgiveness by the living of a deceased person, in relation to the departing soul.
Prayer to God and liberation from attachment to the soul, in order to stop forcibly holding it near you. Wish the soul Good, further development and movement towards God, and let go - trust the Light Forces that They know better than you what this Soul needs.
Prayers and corresponding church rituals aimed at helping the Soul: so that it can let go of the completed incarnation, repent, purify and rise to the bright worlds of God.
The prayer of relatives to God and the Light Forces, in their own words (most importantly from the heart), so that God takes the soul under His protection, to take care, to teach everything good, to protect from evil. So that all the good deeds of the departing soul, committed during life, go to her credit, into the cup of “Good”. Prayer is best written in writing.

You need to understand that there may be more serious negative reasons why the soul cannot leave, which must be worked out purposefully with good.

What the Spiritual Healer can do in situations like this

Necessary spiritual work to prepare the Soul for the transition to another world, to strengthen the connection with God, etc. (even before death)
Reducing pain, if any. As they say, so that everything happens as easily and painlessly as possible for the dying.
Help the Soul and relatives in liberation from all attachments, fetters, holding back.
The fight against Evil for the Soul is the fight against the corresponding dark forces and entities that claim it, pump energy and strength from it. Punishment for those.
Accompaniment and protection of the Soul after death to the light worlds, where it can be admitted and raised by the Higher Forces.
Working with the negative karma of the soul, which holds it and pulls it down - helping the Soul to work off karma, attracting the spiritual forces of relatives for this (mutual assistance).
The launch of certain programs, processes for the maximum restoration of the soul after the death of a person and for its rest.
Helping relatives in direct communication with the Soul, in order to clarify and close the necessary questions.
Other.

If you have a need for such work - I can give you the contact of a good Spiritual Healer.

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